A Wedding

This week’s Monday School comes from the Gospel of John chapter 2 verses 1-12. Read more about Monday School here.

John tells the story about a wedding at Cana in Galilee. The Bible says Mary, the mother of Jesus, was there and that Jesus and his disciples were invited too. But there was a problem at the wedding.

They ran out of wine.

Mary is remarkably concerned about the wine situation because I believe she was more than a guest at this wedding. Perhaps she was close to the bride and groom and their families. Maybe she helped prepare for the wedding…..may have planned and cooked the feast for it. Maybe she and others gathered the flowers, set the places at the tables and made sure everything was just so. Then, in the middle of the festivities, the wine was gone.

Mary did the only thing she knew to do. She told Jesus. Then told the servants to do whatever Jesus said.

I think I know what Mary felt during the wedding at Cana. My oldest daughter was married this weekend. We prepared and worked to make everything just so and we wanted everything to be as wonderful as we planned it to be. Those of us who helped were remarkably aware of everything – the weather, the flowers and music, the food, drinks, and the cake. We wanted the bride and groom to have no worries. We wanted the guests to have no need or distractions and to fully enjoy the celebration of two lives becoming one. To take in the music played and the promises made. To understand why the bride and groom chose You’re Beautiful by Phil Wickham as one of their wedding songs. To grasp the meaning of the entire festivity.

Because a wedding is no small thing.

As Frederick Buechner puts it, “…every wedding is a dream, and every word that is spoken there means more than it says, and every gesture – the clasping of hands, the giving of rings – is rich with mystery. Part of the mystery is that Christ is there as he was in Cana once, and the joy of a wedding, and maybe even sometimes the tears, are a miracle that he works.”

We enjoyed the words and the gestures and we felt the love and blessings. We laughed and cried and danced. We celebrated the miracle of two becoming one and Jesus was with us at our wedding celebration at Glenn Hill.

When we arrive at eternity’s shore
Where death is just a memory and tears are no more
We’ll enter in as the wedding bells ring
Your bride will come together and we’ll sing….
You’re beautiful

by Phil Wickham

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  1. brucewmartin on October 30, 2017 at 5:46 pm

    Love. This.

    • mariegriffith on October 30, 2017 at 7:04 pm

      This weekend has me feeling all kinds of things. My heart is full. Thank you for the most beautiful ceremony people have ever witnessed. So blessed.

  2. Joy Waters Martin on October 30, 2017 at 9:28 pm

    It was such a beautiful moment …just beautiful. Love the quote by Buechner as well. Thank you!

    • mariegriffith on October 30, 2017 at 10:29 pm

      Joy I didn’t get to say thank you to you and Roger for being there and helping out. Y’all are such a blessing! Love you BIG!

      • Joy Waters Martin on October 31, 2017 at 9:09 am

        Roger’s amazing isn’t he! I just went to warm places and hibernated (haha ). Thank you all so much for inviting us to be a part of this precious time. Love you.

  3. adventuresofabusymomcom on October 31, 2017 at 2:29 am

    Congratulations to your family!

    • mariegriffith on October 31, 2017 at 5:38 am

      Thank you. It was a beautifully blessed day.

  4. PamBarksdale on November 1, 2017 at 6:04 am

    Beautiful ceremony, beautiful bride, beautiful words.

    • mariegriffith on November 1, 2017 at 6:12 am

      Thank you Pam. So glad you were there to enjoy it with us.

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