The Take Away

Last week was a a life changer for me. My heart was refreshed, my confidence renewed, and I was reminded of why I do what I do. I attended a conference called Speak Up, a speaking and writing conference in Grand Rapids, Michigan. I will glean from the abundance of all that was shared at the conference for a long time. There’s still a lot for me to sort through but I know the people I encountered and the knowledge I gained are what impacted me the most.

The People

The most significant take away:  new friends, colleagues, and mentors who want me to succeed and are willing to share their knowledge and help me grow. They not only shared their expertise, they shared the stories of their lives. The kinds of stories that caused hope to grow in our hearts. The conference director, keynote speakers, other writers, an editor with a large publishing house or author of several books. Speaker to thousands or one just starting out. It didn’t matter….all were generous with their knowledge, stories and encouragement.

I was able to participate in a critiquing session at the conference. Authors, publishers, editors or literary agents were given samples of our writing to read aloud. The group then offered encouragement, feedback, and critique of our work. This was the first time professionals evaluated my writing and I’m thankful for the opportunity to hear from them.

The Knowledge

Without even meaning to, I learned a whole new vocabulary last week. I know what a pub board is and what literary agents and acquisition editors do. I learned how important felt need is to a book proposal and the process of a book getting published from beginning to end. I didn’t take the speaking track but I learned so much from those who did during our conversations at lunch or mingling in hallways.

The breakouts were valuable sources of information and practical advice on a variety of topics. I now have a collection of resources I’ll use over and over again as I take my next steps.

But what now?

I Work.

If I do nothing with the knowledge and renewed confidence I’ve gained then my time at the conference is wasted. I’m better equipped to do the work of writing and sharing what I write and what it takes is work. Lots of it.

Having a simple system or plan in place will help me stay focused and disciplined with the work. At least it will make the work more manageable.

Where Are You

Where are you in pursuing the dreams of your heart? What are your gifts and talents? Your work or craft? God gave them to you and they’re meant to be used to offer the world something wonderfully unique.

Each of you has received a gift to use to serve others. Be good stewards of God’s various gifts of grace.   1 Peter 4:10

Whatever your craft, passion, or dream – people, knowledge, and work are important influences.

Gather with others who share your passion or those who want to learn your craft. Whether they’re experts or newbies, the ideas and know-how exchanged will be beneficial. Who better to give feedback than someone who knows or wants to know your craft?

Surround yourself with people who believe in and encourage you. It’s important to have others who will remind you of why you do what you do and dream what you dream.

There are lots of ways to get the knowledge you need. Take classes offered at your local college. Join a club or read a book. Ask a master if you can watch and learn. And remember……you can Google and find a You Tube video of almost anything. Make a habit of learning something new about your passion every day.

Now the work.

Practice doesn’t always make perfect but it makes us better. Make time for the doing of your craft. For some of us this means it happens after a full day’s work, dinner, and laundry. A calendared plan will help get you through your low energy levels. This is also when those encouraging friends and mentors will remind you why you do what you do and give you the boost you need to keep at it.

One of the keynote speakers, Bruce Martin, quoted a verse in his talk. My verse. The one I’d underlined and highlighted and starred years ago because it said what I felt so strongly!

But if I say, “I will not mention the Lord
    or speak anymore in his name,”
his word is in my heart like a fire,
    a fire shut up in my bones.
I am weary of holding it in;
    indeed, I cannot.     Jeremiah 20:9

This is why I do what I do. More than with the words I write…..but with my life…..and how I live it. Every part of it. The good parts and the messy ones. My life at home and work. My writing and speaking. Who I am with the people who love me and those who hurt me. Who I am with strangers and friends.

Let our craft, passions, and dreams…….let our entire lives tell of the One who gave them to us.

Photo by Clem Onojeghuo on Unsplash



  1. Lonna Hill on July 21, 2017 at 8:12 pm

    I’ve been waiting for this post since I read your last one. I’m so glad to hear the specifics about how the conference went. Thanks for the inspiration.

    • mariegriffith on July 21, 2017 at 8:16 pm

      Thank you Lonna. I’m glad I’m able to share it. Hope you’re able to make it to a conference soon.

  2. Paula on July 21, 2017 at 10:07 pm

    I’m so happy for you and glad everything went well! Great advice for everyone!

  3. soletusknow on July 22, 2017 at 7:02 am

    Thanks for not only sharing your excitement and passion for what was learned at the conference, but also for encouraging others to keep pressing on in sharing those words that are “in our hearts like a fire…” I appreciate your encouragement and tips!

    • mariegriffith on July 22, 2017 at 7:15 am

      Thank you Heather. We all need the reminder and encouragement. Let us press on!

  4. Dawn Mann on July 26, 2017 at 6:32 pm

    You truly are genuine with your heart in what matters most by the character of Jesus. Thank you for the gift of hope and be led by the heart of the Spirit in giving, as I come to a time such as this – to reveal all that is hidden in the dark and bring it to the light. My heart cannot contain the love of God and others in speaking and writing in what He has done and will continue His works until the end of time.

    • mariegriffith on July 26, 2017 at 6:42 pm

      Dawn, how beautifully encouraging your words are. I love your heart and will be praying for you as you step into what God has for you.

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  6. Blake Houser on April 10, 2019 at 7:36 pm

    I love you and am so proud of you mom! No matter how many people you text, your blog matters to me!!!

    • marieg on April 10, 2019 at 7:52 pm

      Baby you’re so sweet. Obedience over outcomes. Even if one person is encouraged it’s worth it. Love you.

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